and i have a good news to share to the entire world. she doesnt then THAT is whats ridiculous. She returned 48hrs later and we signed a parenting time agreement that laid out dates and times as well as our agreement for shared legal and physical custody of our daughter that we would follow until mediation. I stand with you brother. Keep fighting for your kids to know you love them. Instead of every other weekend, he has had me take our son for weeks here a week there Even as of this year i had him the entire month of January two weeks in February. The police and courts did not care about anything and stated that neither of us (my self or my wife) had any leagle recourse against each other untill there was a court order in place. 2 weeks later he asked me to move in with them because he couldnt care for the child like I would. This is unbelievable that this can keep happening. In all states, violating legal custody rights is a crime punishable by jail. If the interference is ongoing or poses a threat to the child's best interests, modification of the custody . My ex fiance filed for custody of the child but i have yet to respond so it hasnt gone to court yet. That when summer came I would get him well she would not give him back I called the police they said she had them and cant make her give him to me I tried on my own and she would attack me well then she asked could u write a letter giving my custody for a year so she can sign if he gets sick I did only because I did not want my baby hurt and they could not treat him now the letter is up and there asking for another and I dont want to if there is a way I can get him back we have never been to court nor has might rights been taken care of I have a job a house a car dont do drugs or drink please can someone tell me what do. Well that Friday in his home town they were putting on a show and a parade. I jave offered for him to livenin norfolk va where he would only be 4 hours from us and to meet him half way every other weekend until he finishes school and then we can.arrange to live closer so he can have.more visitation. How are you preventing or interfering with her custody by talking to him on the phone? She has brought the cops to my house and they wont do anything for her..so I dont have to hand our son over to her if the courts are not in it correct? Unlawful visitation or parenting time interference. We have 3 children, 19, 17 & 15. M.P., 447 Mass. I also moved to improve the quality of life for my son and to get him specialized treatment for his disabilities. Marie, It sounds like you are still very focused on every little thing he is doing and not doing. My ex husband does not follow the court ordered custody that was changed by him in 2013 when he took me back to court on on false charges when him and his wife decided to state the person I had watching my daughter was irresponsible and left my daughter alone, They also stated my daughter and her son wete left alone cooking at 9/10 yrs old. Story short forgetabout it. Then, he will either reply or your covered with plenty of notice. My lawyer advised that I not tell him until after Ive picked him up but Im worried he will insist I bring him back and claim that he has the right since its his turn for springbreak. I have offered to bring her to see him and I live an hour and a half away. Seeing that this is the case calling the police will do nothing more for you than what I will tell you as the will say the same thing. We do have joint custody. Yes the police can force her back and will if he requests them to. Is there a way to try and prove it or am i powerless if she simply states that she has not been? He has been driving every other weekend waking up our little one at 6 am and try to make it by 10 with the traffic that sometimes is very long and awful. You may actually get custody, child support, tax deductions and best of all your child. You should bring an action in family court to inform the judge that mother is not complying with the court order. I have been in a similar situation. 2. Im still married but working towards a divorce soon. What forms do I need to fill out to go to childs surgery when I am not the legal guardian right now. my daughters mom is the non custodial parant and all the sudden shes in charge bull sh*t. shes supposed to have superived visition. She used to take us to court every month for random reason and somehow she got to the point where she see him every other weekends , all holidays , and 6 weeks in the summer . I can tell you the police will not enforce court ordered visitation UNLESS they are ordered by the court. Your best bet is the submit a Parenting Plan, which can be obtained in your county courthouse and file it with the court. Since he is 17 you have to love him back not with force. Is she required to tell me to where my daughter is living? Trust me if this is the worst he has done, I can guarantee it can get much uglier. I surely will go and get the order. Political figures often discuss the welfare of our children but never discuss the problem regarding our family court system, unfair visitation laws and how those laws effective fathers who want to be part of their childrens lives. Last winter the mother had moved to the same state, the father picked up and dropped off the children each weekend (3 hour trip), the mother then moved back to another state just before summer with a 3 day notification- father got no summer visitation last year. So what should I expect? Breaking of custody agreement, what do I do? My brothers baby mother moved back to Ohio. I made a calender for the Judge showing all the violations, with documentation of my attempts to contact his mother. stipulation was that every time I did something that David didnt agree with hed Ok check this out! My ex wife passed away 2 weeks ago. So I bought the tickets. My children are hurting. I did go back to court and was shocked over how little they cared that he was doing this stuff. I was never aware or informed that the court date moved forward or anything! I do not know why my younger son was not put on the flight. She took them three weeks ago and is now refusing to let them come home. need to be here 10 days after school out. Ask the court about your first hearing date. Or do you think that is not a good enough reason for the court to grant me the emergency hearing? He served his time after being sentenced 3yrs ago in WV. I had to stay in jail for 26 hours before bond was set at 2,500 dollars. what are my rights now that my daughter who has been misbehaving. WTH? I have explained that he will return once we have all the custody paper submitted and signed by a judge, visitation squared away or me getting full custody for him to stay here. Word of mouth. What are my options at this moment? I have my kids full time but its joint custody. email me I work in Family Law Documents I can help with easy filing and court costs in your stateI know the things attorneys dont want you to know. wont pick up a civil case, but the police should follow your Court Order and demand for the charge of interference with custody that is criminal and they have to be involved. In addition to child support, my husband is responsible for all the travel to see / pick up the boy, clothing, shoes, school supplies; you name it, we pay for it. and the same time as our new apt. to get to, so she was going to drop us off and shed be back to get us at three, which was right after her appt. My suggestion to you is to file BOTH the transfer of Jurisdiction AND Modification of Visitation at the same time. Will that be a consideration for the judge to award physical custody to the non custodial parent? I dont understand Since he now wants to see his kids more often, dont try to prevent that from happening. I am a teacherhow can I not!! Im going through a custody battle with my ex we already went through mediation and have court next week. third, yes, you can file a motion with the court to hold your father in law in contempt if there is a written court order. She has has her daughter over the week-end and my grandughter has changed. to stop. That is the best interest for your child. His mother doesnt like me and degrades me to them. If a TDo has been filed and the other parent is not abiding by that Order, for instance I have not seen my son in 10 days. Now, it looks like a costly court battle is going to ensue. The restraining orders give provision for parenting issues..The judge wrote that they may text through THIRD PARTY any parenting time issues. By showing [], My sons father and I have a Final Order from Court that states he is allowed resonable visitation with our child, and if we dont agree we can take it back to court. She is correct that you need to get things in writing, but seeing it already is in writing he really doesnt need to bend to you whims/requests. Thats what we are and always will be. In order to leave the state with the child you should make a court appearance before moving or your done. "The importance to the children of one parent's advantage in relocating outside the Commonwealth is greatly reduced." I have learned how corrupt the system is. when they give rules and is not been following for one of the parties and only they do is give hard time to the other side and when you call for help to this sources :police,court,DCFS,sheriff,lawyers NO ONE ,ABSOLUTELY NO ONE SEEMS ARE THERE TO DO NOTHING so how you can protect your child?from the other parent ;who can help you ? Some page levels are currently hidden. You do not have to return her unless the courts have served you. Ive been divorced from my ex husband over 6 years. Document everything! He patrolled in the area where we lived and divorced. My neighbor called the police, and the officer that came told her that this was not illegal. Not only did she lie about her beating but she lied about the enviornment she placed the children back in 6 year old was sexually abused at the house th previous summer on visitation. child access guidelines which is every other weekend and one night a week. Section 61 deals with child custody and state procedure. Back in January of 2008 she took off and moved from Wisconsin (where they lived) to Florida without letting him know anything. I worked with the new wife and she told me stories about the children and what a terrible mother the ex-wife was. He ended up getting the children from his mother while they were staying with her over the summer vacation. Good luck to you. I had night shift for the firs 3 months of this babys life as well as babysat all the time. My exhusband took in his 21 year old cousin who was just released from jail and is now on parole for drug charges, possesion and intent to sell. Custodial interference often happens as part of a larger custody dispute. I do not see how a court will grant him custody, unless he can show that you are somehow unfit to be the custodial parent. Let me explain. It is against the law to withhold the child, even for child support. Now we hear that after living together for 6 years and she decided to move out last Dec., that she is entitled to compensation. She is not helping him at all and I wonder how long she has been a lawyer because she doesnt seam to know much. They are a fathers rights attorney and should be able to navigate you through this mess. They are always fighting. THE LEAST HE CAN DO IS GET OFF HIS BUTT Now 2 years later she has refused to abide to the visitation being in contempt, falsely accused me of domestic violence (mind you I havent seen her in 2 years or talked to her in one), have seen my kids only 4 times since she took them and she has asked a judge in Illinois to eliminate all visitation and communication (which they did not have the right to hear as they did not have jurisdiction) and so graciously gave her everything she wanted without cause. can an exs gf get charged for parental interference. His house is dirty and sometimes stinks of cat pee, he doesnt provide nutritious meals and he doesnt turn the heat on very often. I cant keep driving up the old neighborhood, he talks about me to the teachers and I am seen as a nuisance. I had a syncopy episode and hit my head. Watch on. on top of being about to leave the state, him and his mother have been denying me visitation with my son, for the last two weeks now, I have gotten my son things which they refuse to give to him, ie. Do you not think that the Court will see your brief notification as a unilateral demand and then if you call the police or say kidnapping and then say I have no job or money I cant even pick up my child per my own agreement that you are not going to look like a very good parent???? When I asked him where he had moved to he would not reply. And come to find out all I had to do is take the money orders to the court and they would have released him but his lawyer told me to do otherwise. Learn how to file for child custody or parenting time, what forms you'll need, and where to file. My ex gave power of attorney to his wife to make any decisions over my daughter and she has taken her out of the counrty. Word to the wise. Their flight left as scheduled yesterday, and there are other airlines and flights available today. The child now does not want to go with me because she doesnt want to miss going to six flags or soccer games, or friends parties. What I mean is that you even said in your story that Try to remember that your kids love their Father, as they love you and you have had all he time with them exclusively for yourself. Is it illegal that he went behind my back and filed this paperwork before getting court approval. The child was seeing a play therapist until early April when she cancelled to take him to another therapist to get the new therapist to write a note stating the child poops his pants bc of his father (which he does the same at our home). if thay tell the truth I get custody if they lie the grandparents are contoling the child under second degree kidnapping. Then three came and went, so did four, and around four-thirty I start freaking out, right, because no one is answering their phones. He intends to fight me for custody of my son, and is interfering with my rights to custody. From now on get it in writing rather than just a verbal contract. My visit starts at 1130 Is there anything I could do? She has not payed any of the doctor bills even if the divorce said she is reponsible for 33%. And it all occurs outside of a courtroom setting. where did you get these orders or rights for phone calls? If she is willing, the least expensive way to do it, barring all attorneys, is through a court appointed mediator. What can I do ( i have tried reasoning with him) to avoid financial and emotional stress? first, child support and visitation are separate issues. On my paperwork it does clearly state I am the custodial parent and child physically lives w/ me. Dont let them scare you off with threats, you already gave him up for adoption, dont give up on him in any other way if at all possible. police ? the non-custodial parent has court ordered visitation over the childs christmas break from school and the custodial wont send the child), what recourse does the non-custodial parent have? Not Az. I need to see my son and the brothes and sisters from a previous marrieges that live with me cant see them too. And going into the Marines. im trying to make an effort here but the bus only goes so far into fairborn. Which was insane because I could use public transportation. So IF YOU ARENT A LAWYER WHAT ARE YOU AND WHAT HIGHHORSE DO YOU SIT ON TO YELL AT US THRU WORDS!! Im told that the State wont take the time or money to attempt to track her down as she has full physical and legal custody and that a contempt of court charge is not something law enforcement is going to really spend any time on either. Nothing is being done to help her, and my ex has a work schedule that conflicts with his ability to properly parent her. I feel as if this is a case of kidnapping in state. The biological father came over one night and took the children to Charlotte, North Carolina, where he now resides. That is not their problem or their concern. police waited at their house finally his girlfriend should up. I have joint-custody of my daughter. order just because she has the child more than the father. Would this affect us getting the children? I DNT HAVE MONEY FOR ATTORNEY. I cant keep my kids from not knowing there siblings it is wrong. The first question- Does a 14 year old have the right to make visitation decisions and refuse? This is a big misconception made by those who have never had to deal with this first handed and will tell you yes. I ran a Meds and found she is getting 3 different scripts from 2 docs for pain meds and depression pills. Its really a shame what the child is having to go through. I have emailed my ex-wife 4 times asking if she would allow our daughter to spend her Spring Break with me although its not my planned visitation this year. He has the supervisied visits because of drugs,alcohol abuse and the domestic felony assault that put his other child at risk..the baby almost died and wasnt even born yet! I reminded him Id be there on friday the 6th. My sons mother has already filed a court date and its 3 months from now, and she will not let me see my son until then. It has been 9 days now. 177 (2006) In order for a parent who shares joint physical custody to move out of state, s/he must meet a higher standard than a parent who has sole physical custody. And Legal Aide will not help us. A lock icon ( Sorry for your position as I have been fighting a 3 year battle with my ex from seeing the kids to the same thing you are asking. 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